Nick gets a lot of questions, and only has time to respond to a small number of them. Due to his busy schedule, Nick is unable to answer questions privately – the only questions that will be answered are the ones that are selected for publication on this site.

If you’re not comfortable having your name publicly attached to your question, please make up an alias – it’s a well-established advice column tradition. Your email address will not be published anywhere and will be kept entirely confidential.

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